About the Author: Attorney Douglas G. Chalgian is both certified in elder law by the National Elder Law Foundation and a Fellow with the American College of Trust and Estate Counsel. He is also the only attorney in Michigan who has served as Chair of both the Probate and Estate Planning and Elder Law and Disability Rights Sections of the State Bar.
1. Is there a will?
2. Who is in charge?
3. Will there be a reading of the will?
4. Do I have a right to information?
5. How soon should I know something?
6. How long does it take for things to be settled?
7. Are there tax consequences?
8. What about sentimental items?
9. What if stuff is missing?
10. What about things that were understood, but may not be written down in formal documents?
11. What if things were changed when the person who died was sick?
12. Do I need a lawyer?
Conclusion
Inheritance is as much a part of death as graveyards and coffins. When someone close to you dies, you will have feelings of grief and loss, but it is perfectly normal for you to also have questions about the estate plan and what you should expect. In many families, those issues will be handled with transparency and cooperation. But in a significant percentage of cases, legitimate concerns may exist, and obtaining legal advice may be the only way to make sure that things are being done right.